Is this infatuation lust or real love at first site?

I met this guy on july 4 in the supermarket. The next day we were talking on the phone. By that thursday he came to visit me. Okay fast forward to Monday, He came over from a half day of work and we had . Wednesday when he came over after school We were talking and I kissed him. we had . the same night he tells me he loves me. Friday and saturday we have . And he tells me he thinks I may be his next wife because he is divorced. I really don't know anything about him. Little things come out like he has a violent streak and hold on to anger because his best friend slept with his wife and they live in the house he brought her. My thing is even though I don't know him outside of him coming to Visit me at my house when my kids are not here, he is calling me his baby and is telling me he loves me. I really wasn't looking to get into another relationship because i was tired of the games and drama that comes with it. so what is this, Is this s real emotional connection or is it all game to get into my pants. and not only that now he is saying he wants me to give him a daughter Please respond please because I am not ready or will to fall for someone who is crazy and deranged.