How many of you find this as odd as I do?

So my boyfriend drinks, goes to raves, is 1.5 years older, and is in High School. I am younger then him, don't like alcohol and have never been to a rave or to some party someone has hosted at their home. But this is the thing, he is the uke and I'm the seme. He is practically the definition of a seme, and I'm practically a uke. Anyone find this as weird as me?