Why don't men realize that they have the upper hand before marriage and kids?

u definitely got a point. but in case u havent' notcied uncle sam likes to single men on their taxes as opposed to married men. so your damne if u do and your damned if u don't. but i feel u man. women are mind trips. kids are a pain in the ***. but what can u do? most of us are driven to procreate.